Some Life Challenges I have conquered....

Like so many HSPs, Empaths, I have experienced much sadness, trauma, stress and loss in my life.

My Dad was ill with Chronic Fatigue/ME during a decade of my youth, he too is a HSP Empath, who suffered a traumatic childhood that brought on adrenal fatigue for most of his mid-life. Who spent most of that decade in bed with curtains closed, depressed, unable to engage with life and his family, but thanks to wise words from my late Brother is now living life, on his terms and thriving.

My Brother Nathan Wills, who was a Music Producer and YouTuber, took his own life, just days before his 31st birthday, again, another HSP Empath who sadly was a victim to the human-conditioning and found this life too harsh, controlling and noisy.

I witnessed my Mum being sectioned twice, due to built-up stress and menopause, resulting in two spectacularly traumatic psychosis episodes. Witnessing her suffering, and the affect it had on my Brother and Dad, due to us being an incredibly close and empathic family, we felt each other’s pain deeply.

I also had to care for my Gran in her last 3 months, which brought with it much sadness and trauma, but also a lot of strength and perspective, as did all of these life changing experiences.

I experienced working as a live-in Nanny in my early twenties, to a narcissist who gas-lighted me for a year, in a foreign country, which was one of the most traumatic, yet spiritually awakening experiences of my life and did leave me with PTSD that has now diminished greatly.

This is to name but a few, mainly my big life events. I have experienced the usual toxic and unhealthy relationships, employers, friends, the stressful experience of navigating through this life as a HSP Empath, not meeting my needs because I didn’t know what they were until the last few years, when I came across the term Sensory Processing Sensitivity, which has transformed my life.

I also need to acknowledge the most incredible and joyous experiences I get to have, often on a daily basis from being a HSP Empath. Magical moments! So much growth, knowledge and understanding when it comes to intense highs and lows from life, experiencing the dark nights of the soul, as well as the euphoric highs of life’s divine energy.

I have also come to the conclusion after a long, deep and healing process that Motherhood just isn’t for me, even though part of me wants it. I know I have to sacrifice this experience, because it would compromise me too much as an Empath and the work I am here to do with others, that in itself is a caring and responsible role. Here to show others that there truly is another way to live life, where there is flow and freedom from our fear, the human and societal conditioning.

I want to inspire people and especially women, to embrace and find self-empowerment through a process and feel great about making the decision of living a child-free life. Because it is normal and perfectly healthy! It’s not just because I haven’t met the right guy, had the right circumstances or biological complications, but just a deep knowing of how I need to live life, that needs listening to and honouring. Something bigger than me.

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Elisha x